What love means to me

 To me, love is presence —

the quiet wish to be near,

not to own, but to understand.


It endures, not by force,

but by learning how to stay open.


Love holds respect in silence,

forgiveness without keeping count,

and truth that doesn’t demand agreement.


It doesn’t measure or compete;

it grows best where both can simply be.


It’s kind, not to impress,

but because kindness feels right.


And it’s patient —

not waiting for perfection,

just allowing space for two hearts

to meet as they are.

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  1. catspeakOctober 10, 2025 at 3:53 PM

    So well spoken. Much of this I would want to say to not only the One I love, but to the friends I consider my extended family.

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