I wasn't there....but you were on my mind.



Four years together,
high school memories,
growing pains,
awkward feelings,
we knew each other well!

Graduation,
memories,
dances,
good times and bad.
Braces,
new cars,
loves old and new.
We didn't really know how much "life" would be in front of us.

I wasn’t' there:
When you met your spouse,
When you fell in love,
When you got married,
When you had your children.
But you were on my mind.

I wasn't there:
When your child took their first steps,
when you sent your child off to school,
when you celebrated anniversaries and birthdays,
but you were on my mind.

I wasn't there:
When your child came home crying from their first heartbreak
When they rejoiced from their first team win
When they attended their junior prom
But you were on my mind.

I wasn’t there:
When your child left this world,
now that you are in pain,
now that you feel like tomorrow will never  come.
I don't want you to just be on my mind….

I want to hold you,
cry with you,
scream with you,
be in pain with you,
but I can't,
because I am too far away.

So I want you to remember,
over all these years,
26 in total,
you have been on my mind,
you have been on all our minds.

When you feel upset,
down,
hurt,
depressed,
and feel that no one knows your pain.

Remember that there are hundreds of people,
who,
regardless of the miles,
or years,
are surrounding you with love,
support,
and yes......we feel your pain.

We feel it because you are one of us
and you always will be.

May God lighten your way,
give you strength when you need it,
and if you need one of us.....know we'll be there.

Written by Eric Hodgson
for Bev Harris
dedicated for Bev's daughter Tiffany.

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